I believe if I still lived in London I would feel EXACTLY the same. But in Rio de Janeiro (where I live?) people are a lot more social and spend more time outside so you know where there will be men doing activities. People are way more likely to introduce you into their social groups without vetting you secretly for six months. People talk to other people they don’t know without thinking everyone is a potential serial killer haha But, seriously I have such a better, spontaneous social life here than in England (Where everyone over the age of 30 has their weekends planned out months in advance) that I do meet people without apps.